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A daily blog, where I answer questions, from all areas of life, asked by you.


Questions can be work related, about relationships, motherhood, personal development, etc.

Feel free to describe a situation with your questions, however try to keep your questions wide and open.


Examples for questions:

Why am I lonely?

why do I fight with my husband all the time?

What is the meaning of motherhood?

What is the special bond between parents and kids?

Why are kids today so bright and difficult at the same time?

I will answer questions in a way that all readers will relate to answers and keep away from personalising answers too much.


For personalised answers please feel free to write or contact me directly at your convenience.

Below You will find the questions I have received and their answers.
Tuesday, 02 March 2010 05:44

M. asked me:

If all pains are physical, then why is it there are people who are not self aware, who do not do anything to enrich and develop their life, but still enjoy good health?

 

My answer:

There are different developmental stages in life.
Each stage brings its wisdom, new abilities and new challenges as well.
A new stage will not begin until the previous did not exhaust itself.

When we look at kids we do not expect a 2 year old to act as a 4 year old for better or worse, because
he simply can't. His brain is not as developed, hid body is not as strong etc.

However when we look at them we can see that the 4 year old has bigger questions and challenges to
overcome then the 2 year old because he is more able.
So the more able you are, the bigger your challenges become since you have the ability to face them and grow with them.

 

That is the case with the people you have mentioned.
You are the 4 year old and they are the small ones. The fact that they might seem happier and healthier
does not mean they are more developed. It means they get given less obstacles because they do not have the tools to deal with them.
 

All your questions, range of emotions, depth and aches and pains do not exist for them in their level!
They operate differently to you, just like a 2 year old which can not imagine how is to be 4 year old, until he gets there by himself.

My friend, concentrate on being 4 and look towards 5!

 

 

 
 
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